Therefore many astrology customers need me to inform them if they will ever marry or not. Having followed many customers' and friends' graphs' within the previous 40 decades, I have come to feel that astrology is not the best predictor of whether a person will fulfill and commit to your spouse. HISTORY is a much better predictor, along with the astrologer who does not get a connection history by the customer is very likely to prove incorrect. What I have observed is that you will find relationship-prone individuals and individuals that aren't relationship-prone.
The man or woman who is not relationship-prone may have transits or progressions which appear great for love, not meet a soul, not as a soul mate. Go figure. Nevertheless, the graph does tell much about the amorous challenges to be overcome.
Specifically, there are gaps in regards to the outer world aspects to Venus in their level of openness to devote to a venture. Venus-Uranus types over all want freedom and liberty, and thus they frequently participate in a seemingly infinite set of short term attractions till they find a person who can provide them space to keep exploring and growing themselves and their possible.
Venus-Neptune types do not only wish to perpetrate, but they wish to merge, so that they could become hooked on appreciate and also immerse themselves in a codependent relationship after another.
Neptune at Libra-the indication to get a generation of individuals born between 1942-55--is comparable in its consequences to some Venus-Neptune facet. The strain of its Neptune in Libra creation was one on one venture versus universal oneness with everything. Their best of love is to undergo complete oneness with your spouse.
As they climbed up, divorce figures slowly attained as large as 50 percent in some regions of the U.S. With Libra as a keynote, a lot people with Pluto prominent functioned to maintain peace between their parents. They were frequently caught in the center in a bitter wake, afflicted by stressful situations like double custody, their parents' sequential unions, multiple step-parents, and dads who transferred and lost contact after the divorce. Because of this, a lot are fearful of becoming involved with adult partnerships.
Though this specific talisman works no better than many, these folks can be obsessed with appearances and with expensive, ever-changing style. The prevalence of bulimia and anorexia continues to grow, and breast implants are a growth business, even among teenagers. Not many Pluto in Libra people are trend slaves-Grunge and Goth exist in a part in protest against those values)
Individuals with Venus-Saturn facets are reluctant to enter into a venture for many reasons. For one, they'd discover that it's a binding agreement that involves a life commitment and enormous responsibility. Second, they are quite aware of functions generally and the conventional male-female functions of parent and spouse particularly, and therefore in committing to a spouse they'd also be committing into a function they might or may not want to meet. For a number of them, their livelihood represents a deeper degree of spirit devotion and entering into a relationship and parenthood will detract from it. At length, Venus-Saturn people think you need to get love by working hard at it and don't think they are inherently adorable. To get around the rejection they expect, they may escape walls and concentrate on a career.
As soon as an individual fits to the not dating likely category, recovery work is frequently required to alter a decision about connections they have made at a really profound level. 1 big barrier to your relationship in this life is a guarantee of either chastity or everlasting devotion to a specific soul. Such vows might not be conscious ones, but they hold great power and have to be revoked intentionally and especially in some kind of ritual for a brand new relationship to be potential.
For example, I often discover that in a really deep level, individuals with Venus in Virgo or Virgo planets at the connection homes (7th, 8th, and 5th) carry their marriage vows extremely badly and stay loyal, long after a divorce. Doing a conscious revocation of these vows can alter the situation so they are once more available for a dedication.
If you guess that you're nevertheless bound by vows which have outlasted their significance to your own life, you might want to produce a conscious re-decision about that until you may permit yourself another union.
Would you prefer a comprehensive interpretation of your Venus and what it says about your own relationships? An appointment with an expert astrologer--preferably one having a mental or counselling background--may prove enlightening.